Im dating my friends ex
But to let go of someone who is well and alive and possibly still loves you is an incredible task.
Yet let go you must if the partner you are clinging to does not meet your needs.
Most people have had a relationship in their past that is very hard to let go of. This is the one that felt as if it was meant to be.
This is the one that felt like true love, yet would just not work.
After all the drama between the two of us, I am nothing but mad.
It has completely crushed me because we were engaged, living together, and wanted children. I can’t go five minutes without thinking about her! Over the past month I have been doing a lot of self awareness.
Think about, even list, all of the qualities that you loved about your ex. On the day that it was a year since we lost the baby, he was extremely intoxicated and under the influence. He was extremely upset at himself for doing this and took himself to rehab that same day.
Add to the list the activities the two of you did that made you feel satisfied. He moved into an apartment with two friends that were extremely bad influences. A few months later we ended up working things out and moving in together. But then came the beginning of the summer and things got horrible.
He hung out with her but never did anything with her. I cut off all communication between us and decided to move 5 states away to live with my absolute bestfriend.
Mine the ex-relationship for clues of what you truly want in a wonderful, fulfilling relationship. I have seen her a couple of times in the past several months. She never called back and has moved onto some one else. One morning we got into a terrible fight and I left to go buy him cigarettes and when I got back he was gone.
Now you have a good idea of what you are looking for in your next partner or what you should put into your current relationship. Moving on to another relationship after such an experience is difficult. Saw her a couple weeks ago and she just brushed our time aside as it never happened. So, we were together 2 years and lived together for a year. He then began to due drugs again (his real parents were drug addicts and alcoholics). He went over to his friends out that recently got divorced.
Even when he appeared to be holding back or hurting you on purpose, he was always doing the best he could.
Understand that he never intentionally meant to hurt you. Understand and buy into the following two concepts: change is hard and people can’t change for you.
That’s the gift from your ex – the clarity of knowing what you want and need from a relationship! Attracting love, or giving your heart to someone is not easy. I asked her to lunch and the relationship took off. She then told me that there was an ex-boyfriend she still had issues with. We continued on and about three weeks later she told me she was returning to him. It’s extremely complicated because I met him a day after my 17th birthday, he had just gotten out of jail. He started to talk to another girl (he was known for being a man whore before meeting me). This friend is a terrible influence on him and I have never liked him.